Okay, so some of you all know that I was dating/ in a relationship with a weirdo, a Libra man, and things were cool. We went on dates, exercised together, and kicked it at each other places.
So one day, I texted my, now ex-boyfriend, just to see how he was doing. Apparently, things weren't right with him, and I wanted to make sure he was okay. I did not hear back from him that entire day. Later on that night, around midnight, the weirdo calls me, and I am crying. I am dramatic, I am Leo-Sun, 8th house, so I assumed the worse happened. He answered all confused and what not as to why I was crying. I straight up told him, "I thought something happened to you." He informed me that nothing happened to him, and that he was driving around, thinking about somethings on his mind. He told me this the night before or a couple of nights before, which is why I was checking on him. The purpose of his drive was to see what was wrong with him, specifically if he wanted a relationship with me or not. Driving helps him think. I confessed that I saw some behavioral problems from him, didn't express what they were, but I told him that I had been seeing some things that I did not like such as, being dismissive, him being on TikTok/Instagram during out dinner dates, and him spazzing out at my choice of music. I listen to an array of music. After confessing all of this, he ask, "Have you ever though about ending the relationship?" Y'all, before I could even string a coherent thought together, he says, "You don't have to lie."
Y'all, I have never lied during our relationship, so I don't know where this is coming from.
I told him that, "I have been seeing somethings that I didn't like and have possibly regretted this relationship. However, I didn't want to quit the relationship without trying to smooth things out first." Us Leos will fight for something we want verses giving up so easily. After our phone convo, I called my friend, the Sag, and was telling him how I had been calling the weirdo a few times that night and was met with no response. The Sag responded, "That is not cool. He could have at least told you he needed his space, instead of not responding." When I go MIA, I tell the weirdo, so that he knows. I just don't do it.
Fast forward to later on that same day, the weirdo came over to put me to "sleep," but this is when I noticed even more abnormal behavior. He exited his car with his shades on and wore them all through my house. In fact, he only took them off before he ate me and xes me. Once we were finished, he puts his clothes back on, and proceeds to hand me a rubber. I look at him confused, and he replied, "Here. Just in case." Uh? What in tarnation does he mean, "just in case?" We go outside and he is just standing, talking about how my feet need some sun, me telling him about my nail appointment that he was going to pay for, the doors on the neighbors homes and my dad's V6 Engine. Not looking at me too much. He kissed me and told me to go straight to sleep and to not stay up late. I stayed up late, which he texted me, "why are you still up?"
Moving on to the dumbass finale that really made no sense. AND. I. MEAN. NO. F'ING. SENSE. Y'ALL. The weirdo texted me at 5:20pm, Thursday, telling me "to get to work safely, hun." He did this all throughout us talking/dating/relationship. I told him that I was not going to work that day because I was not feeling well and extremely tired. Then, around 4:04am he sent a dumbass break-up text. Now I didn't read the text because my phone was in the drawer around this time; however, I called him at 7:16am, the same day, and he didn't bring up the message. He told me his mother was calling him and that he would call me back, which he didn't. Side note: his text responses became slower and we were no longer on the phone for four-hours everyday. I knew some bs was up when those, along with him believing that I would cheat on him when he mentioned a wife having adult transactions with another man because her husband ain't doing, entered the fray. After our phone conversation, I read the dreaded text. He pretty much stated that he enjoyed getting to know me these past few weeks, and that the more we hang out the more he sees me as a "friend." He really enjoyed this journey, I called it that from the beginning, but he didn't want to hurt me or waste my time and that if I would let him be my friend.
I reminded him, while we were walking on the trail, that he said, "if this doesn't work, I don't want to be your friend. I didn't pursue a friendship. I pursued a relationship." He went on to say that he has been feeling like this for a few days and has been having to battle this. Mind you all, I asked him everyday is, "everything okay?" "Everything is fine. I am fine."...Y'all, I am a Scorpio Moon, and all my houses are in the 8th house, so, who was he lying to? Plus, I foreshadowed us breaking up a couple of days before the real break-up. He continued to say how things didn't feel right between us, he thought that the things we had in common weren't actually in common, that last one makes no sense. I had asked him, "what does us being friends look like?" He replied, "us just being friends before things started happening." That is so phu*cking vague that even the Sag was like, "Bruh, what?" I told him that I am not talking to him about this over text and we need to talk face-to-face. No response for a good hour. While I was on my way to work, I deleted our text messages and blocked him. Then the bastard had the nerve to tell me to save my money when I asked if he wanted to go on a date on our impromptu day off. Mind you he ain't never turned a date down, especially since he was going out of town to see his family, which I believe was a lie, but he don't miss out on money because the dude complained about rubbers being $18.00, had the nerve to ask me," Are you going to be here all 18-years?" If pregnant, which I said, "hell no!" Then complained about his oil change being $113.00. On top of that, he was possessive, jealous, insecure, worried about how people would thought of him, versus being himself, and he was weird as all get out. This dude lifted up shirt and smacked his belly. Smacked it, y'all! Just before xes. He also clowned the Sag because of what the Sag was doing, which was just him being his self, but he was also jealous when I went out the Sag once. He told a one of his female friend that, "she is going on a date with another guy, which she told me about. But it's okay because this will be her last night single." He pretty much wanted me to tell the Sag,"bye," which I was not because I have known the Sag longer than him, and when I ate lunch with the Sag. He got in his feelings. "Go eat with you friends. Have fun," before walking away. Also, he felt some kind of way that I hugged a guy that I am cool with, before acknowledging him. He would also do this tit-for-tat bull crap. For example, I went MIA when first started talking, so he took it upon him to ignore my message and responded the following day. Okay, dude, it ain't that serious.
Y'all, I am not doing this bs with him. Whichever girl he was entertaining or thinking of entertaining, he can do it in peace, but he is blocked forever and cannot speak to me. Ain't no spinning the block because the streets are blanketed with snow. An older guy told me that it makes no sense to go from a serious relationship to a friendship. He can't be my friend acting like this and not wanting to communicate ish to me, but text his ex what she needs to learn. I caught glimpses of the convo and I believe his response was last, and he was reading this on our second date!
Worst. Weirdo (libra). Experience. Ever. A female Cap told me to be his friend just to see what he is missing out on, but when I explained the other antics, she said, "phu*ck him. Bye." Y'all know my Aqua mom chimed in and said, "I wouldn't be his friend, and walked off." 
Y'all, I forgot to add a few more things. This dude played Future's "My Collection," which was about a collection of disposable women that Future has. Mix this with him talking about cheating and I knew he was up to something. Talking about how he us to be on toxic mess, he still is! The phu*ck?! .
He had these habits of asking for my social media, which I never gave him and he would feel some kind of way about that. When he asked me for my gamertag, we are both gamers, he got in feelings about that too, talking about, "this is your second time doing this." His boss started following me right around this time, too. I also would not put it past him to have two instagrams because he did let me see both social medias, TikTok and instagram, but not his twitter in public. He would also send me TikTok videos, which I didn't really care for, but just realized that, that was first sign when he stopped. He would call me controlling, aggressive, domineering, and said, "I ain't no b!tch." I would go to sit on his face and he would call me controlling, and the last time I did that he goes, "Really?" He also kept asking for pictures of me such as nudes, which I never gave him. Side note: next to his p**n picture there was a dark skin woman with her bare chest out. I am asking, "who is this?" And he ain't telling me, but had the nerve to say, "when you send me pictures like that, those pictures will be gone." I am assuming those were his masturbation pics. He did that every night before going to sleep.
Last, I wonder had I had gone to work that day, would he have broke up with that way? Or a different way? Because he took me home in the mornings after work, but that is just a thought.
At least I got free meals, rides home and ate out multiple times.
